Midwife Nicole Lahey played a pivotal role in preparing young Hunter for the experience. Under careful supervision, Hunter watched videos of childbirth, learned simple terms (like “placenta”), and was introduced to basic anatomy concepts that would help her understand what was happening.
Joseloff and Lahey were mindful of ensuring that Hunter didn’t feel uncomfortable or repelled by the process. They wanted her to view childbirth as a natural and incredible event, and their approach played a crucial role in shaping her perspective.
After the baby’s birth, Joseloff and Lahey allowed Hunter to participate in skin-to-skin contact. They explained that newborns often find comfort and warmth when placed against the skin of their family members. Hunter eagerly joined in, holding her baby brother for the first time and falling deeply in love with him.
Some parents may have reservations about having young children present during childbirth, but Lahey believes it’s ultimately a decision for each family to make. Every family and child is different, and for those who do choose to involve siblings, it can create a profound and meaningful bond from the very beginning. Hunter’s story has touched hearts and serves as a reminder of the incredible connections that can form within families.